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One text each morning. By the end of the year, the story of their life.

Every morning we text your mother or father one question. Their reply tells you the day has started well. Their answers to a second question, one a day, become the story of their life in their own words.

Fourteen days free. No card to start.

Tuesday

  1. 8:00 AM

    Good morning, Ruth. How did you sleep last night?

  2. 8:14 AM

    Not too bad. Up once for water, then straight back off.

  3. 8:15 AM

    Thank you, Ruth. Today's question: what did your kitchen smell like on a Saturday morning when you were small? Tap the link to answer, or just text back.

  4. 8:40 AM

    Bread. My mother baked on Saturdays and there was cardamom in it. I had not thought about that in years.

How it works

  1. A question arrives

    At the time they chose, one text asks how the morning is going, in plain words. No app, no login, any phone that gets texts.

  2. They reply

    A few words or one word. Anything back means the day is fine. Their answer reaches you as they wrote it.

  3. A second question follows

    Once the check-in is answered, a question about their life arrives, with a link to answer at length or by text. Every answer is kept in their own words.

One reply, and the morning is settled

You do not have to ring to find out. They do not have to be asked. A reply of any kind, and both of you can get on with the day.

The answers add up

A question a day about childhood, work, the people and places that mattered. By the end of a year, a life written down by the person who lived it.

No camera, no sensor, no app. One person is asked a question, and answers it.

Every answer, kept as they said it

Each answer is saved word for word, under the topic it belongs to. Nobody edits it and nothing is summarized for them. On Sunday evening, everyone in their circle gets the week's answers by email.

A printed book of the year's answers is on the way. The archive is yours from the first day.

A cloth-bound book open on a kitchen table, large print, a scanned family photograph on the facing page.

If there's no reply

Nothing happens quickly, and they always get more than one chance to answer. Here is the whole sequence, with the times attached.

  1. One hour later

    A second text, in the same thread

    A casual line: just checking back in. Most mornings end here. The phone was in another room.

  2. Two hours later

    The main contact hears

    A short text: no reply yet this morning, and the last thing they said. Informational, so you can decide whether to ring.

  3. Three hours later

    The next person in their circle is told

    Plainer words: we still have not heard from them, please check on them now. If there is nobody second, the main contact is asked again in the same words.

Any reply from them stops the sequence at once, including a reply that says today is not a good day.

The family decides what to do

Usually that is a phone call, or a neighbor walking over. We do not call emergency services and we do not send anyone to the door. That decision stays with the people who know them.

What families say

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    Mom answers before I have finished my coffee. I used to ring on Sundays and get the weather. Now I know what her Tuesdays are like.

    A daughter in another city

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    Dad would never have written any of this down. He typed it into his phone with one finger, and now his grandchildren have it.

    A son, out of state

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    My mother says it is the only text she gets that is not from the pharmacy. She likes being asked.

    A daughter, two towns over

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One price, everything included

No tiers, no add-ons, and no charge for anyone in their circle.

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$19.99 a month

  • A check-in every morning, at their time
  • A question about their life every day, kept in their own words
  • Up to four people in their circle, told if there is no reply
  • The week's answers to everyone on Sunday evening
  • Phone support from a person

Fourteen days free, then a card to continue. Cancel any month.

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Questions families ask

Does my parent need a smartphone?

No. Any phone that can receive a text message works, including a flip phone. The daily question about their life comes with a link, and they can tap it or simply text their answer back.

What if they do not reply?

One hour later they get a second text in the same thread. After two hours the main contact is told. After three, the next person in their circle. Any reply from them stops the sequence.

Who can read their answers?

The people in their circle, whom you add and who each confirm their own phone. Nobody else. Their answers are never sold, shared, or used to judge how they are doing.

Can they stop?

Yes, at any moment, by texting STOP. The messages pause, the main contact is told, and START turns them back on.

How does the free trial work?

Fourteen days, starting the morning after setup. No card to start. At the end, you decide whether to continue.

All the questions

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Setup takes a few minutes. Nothing is sent to them until you have seen exactly what it says.

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